A super girly and peppy blonde girl who wears bright pink dresses and skirts everyday is best friends with a quiet goth girl who of course sports all black clothing and big lace up boots. Someone jokes and yells to them “Hey look, a fairy and a vampire!” The blonde turns around and flashes a fanged grin and says “She’s human actually.”
This has been done before, I’m sure.
Losing friends in 3…2…1…
Everyone has worth. On my good days I say that.
But that can’t be the case. What are we but the sum of the positive comments and the negative comments we recieve. The positive Actions and the negative Actions?
When someone calls you smart once, but then repeatedly tells you those are stupid choices you’ve made - how can you be smart?
When someone says you’re attractive but then calls you fat over and over - how can the former be true?
Productive, caring, supportive…
What is worth when the zero sum game takes you negative over and over again?
• shirts actually designed for girls with larger chests
• plus size clothing ACTUALLY intended to accommodate plus size people not just scaled up littler clothing
• clothes for tall people that won’t ride up
• pants for people with no butts
• cute bras in bigger sizes
•the fashion industry’s understanding that there’s lots of body types and every body type deserves to feel good in the clothes they wear
Pants for people who are butts but no legs ><